Bismillahir Rahmanir Rahim
Nikah (marriage) Islam mein ek paak aur moqaddas bandhan hai jo hamein deen aur dunya se bhi judhta hain. Is bandhan ko mazboot banane ke liye Islam ne kuch buniyadi sharaait (conditions) rakhi hain. jin mein se ek bahut hi ahem shart aurat ki raza mandi (permision) hai. Yani kisi bhi aurat ka nikah uski ijazat ke bagair nahi kiya ja sakta.
Aurat Ki Marzi Ki Ahmiyat Islam Mein
Islam ne aurat ko izzat aur ikhtiyaar diya hai. Nikah jaise zindagi ke ahem faisle mein uski marzi lena lazmi hai. Chahe woh kuwari ho ya talaq shuda (divorced) ya bewa (widow), uski raza mandi ke bagair uska nikah karna jaiz nahi hai.
📌 Hadees Se Saboot:
1️⃣ Abu Hurairah (RA) se riwayat hai:
Rasulullah ﷺ ne farmaya:
“Shadi shuda aurat ka nikah us se mashwara liye bagair na kiya jaye, aur kuwari ladki ka nikah uski ijazat ke bagair na kiya jaye.”
Sahaba ne poocha: “Ijazat kaise?”
Nabi ﷺ ne farmaya: “Woh khamosh ho jaye (yani uski khamoshi ijazat hai).”
📚 Sahih Bukhari: 5136, Sahih Muslim: 1419
2️⃣ Abu Dawood ki riwayat mein hai:
Nabi ﷺ ne farmaya:
“Kuwari ladki se nikah ke liye ijazat lena lazmi hai. Agar woh inkaar kare to zabardasti na ki jaye.”
📚 Sunan Abi Dawood: 2093 – Hasan Sahih (Al-Albani)
❌ Zabardasti Ka Nikah Jaiz Nahi
Agar kisi wali (guardian) ne apni beti ya behan ka nikah uski raza mandi ke bagair kar diya ho, to aurat ko poora haq hai ke wo us nikah ko khatam karwa sakti hai.
3️⃣ Abdullah ibn Abbas (RA) se riwayat hai:
Ek kuwari ladki Nabi ﷺ ke paas aayi aur kaha ke uske walid ne uska nikah kar diya hai jabke wo us se raazi nahi thi.
Nabi ﷺ ne use ikhtiyaar de diya ke chahe to woh nikah rakh le ya chhod de.
📚 Sunan Abi Dawood: 2096 – Sahih (Al-Albani)
4️⃣ Waqia Khansa Bint Khazam Al-Ansariya (RA):
Unke walid ne unki shadi kar di jab woh pehle se talaq shuda thi. Unhone us nikah ko pasand nahi kiya aur Nabi ﷺ ke paas gayin.
Nabi ﷺ ne unka nikah radd kar diya.
📚 Sahih Bukhari: 5138, Sunan Abi Dawood: 2101 – Sahih (Al-Albani)
🔎 Wali Ki Zimmedari Aur Hudd
Wali ki zimmedari hoti hai ke woh apne zimme daarana farz nibhaaye. Agar ladki ek deendaar aur achhe akhlaaq wale ladke se nikah karna chahti hai to sirf apni marzi ya gusse ki wajah se us nikah ko na rokna chahiye. Agar wali beja rokta hai, to woh gunah ka kaam kar raha hai.
Lekin agar ladki kisi aise shakhs se nikah karna chahti hai jo deen aur akhlaaq mein kamzor hai, to wali ko usse roknay ka haq hai.
📚 Al-Mughni, 9/383
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✅ Nateeja (Conclusion):
Islam mein nikah ek razamandi ka bandhan hai, zabardasti ka nahi.Shar’i tor par na-jaiz ho sakta hai, aurat ki ijazat aur uski marzi ke bagair kiya gaya nikah. Har wali ko chahiye ke wo apne zimme dari se kaam le aur ladki ki marzi ko ahmiyat de.
💬 Aakhri Baat:
Aaj ke daur mein jab kai jagahon par ladkiyon ko unki raza ke bagair shaadiyon mein dhakela jata hai, to humein zarurat hai ke hum Quran aur Hadees ki roshni mein sachayi samjhein aur insaaf karein. Islam ne aurat ko izzat di hai, uska haq chheena nahi gaya hai — uska ikhtiyaar ek shari ni’mat hai.
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