Islam mein nikah sirf ek rasam ya formality nahi, balke ek paak aur muqaddas aqd (contract) hai jo do afraad ke darmiyan Allah Ta’ala ke naam par hota hai. Nikah ke zariye sirf do log nahi, ek dosti aur mohabbat ke rishtay mein bandhte hain, balke do khandaan bhi.
📌 Nikah Tabhi Jaiz Hai Jab:
Iejaab (Paighaam dena) – Ladke ya uske wakeel ki taraf se nikah ka paighaam diya jaye.
Qubool (Paighaam ko qubool karna) – Ladki ya uske wakeel ki taraf se foran aur wazeh taur par qubool kiya jaye.
Do Gawah (Shahadat) – Nikah mein do Muslim, baaligh aur aqil gawahon ka hona zaroori hai. (2 mard ya 1 mard aur 2 auratein)
✅ Agar:
Agar nikah ka paighaam aur uska qubool do mard gawahoon ke samne hua ho, to nikah valid hai. Aap dono shar’i tor par shohar aur biwi kehlaate hain.
🧕 Wali (Guardian) Ka Kirdar:
Islam mein baaz ulama ke nazdeek, khas tor par hanafi maslak mein, baaligh aur aqil ladki apne nikah ka faisla khud le sakti hai. Lekin agar wali (walid ya bhai) ki raza mandi ho to ye behtareen hai, taake khandani ittefaq aur barkat ho.
Lekin doosre fiqhon (jaise shafi’i, maliki, hanbali) ke mutabiq wali ki raza mandi laazmi hoti hai.
🧾 Likhaai (Documentation):
Nikah ko likhna zaroori nahi, lekin likhna behtar hai taake baad mein kisi bhi ikhtilaf ya misunderstanding se bacha ja sake. Aaj kal Nikah Nama ya legal registration kaafi madadgar hoti hai.
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👨⚖️ Aalim Ki Rehnumai:
Agar aapke ilaqe mein koi mo’tabar Aalim ya Mufti ho to unse rujoo karna behtar hai. Woh nikah shari’at ke mutabiq sar-anjam dene mein madad karenge aur gawaahon ki maujoodgi mein nikah ko sabit karenge.
🗣️ Aam Misconceptions (Ghalat Fehmiyan):
“Sirf mooh se keh dena kaafi nahi”: Agar iejaab-o-qubool gawahon ke samne ho jaye, to nikah ho jata hai. Magar tanha do log mil kar chupke nikah karein aur gawah na hon, to woh nikah nahi kehlaata.
“Mehendi, band baja, ya baraat lazmi hai”: Islam mein ye sab sunnat ya farz nahi. Islam sadgi pasand karta hai. Rasoomat ka Islam se taluq nahi.
“Meher baad mein diya ja sakta hai”: Meher nikah ka ek laazmi hissa hai. Ye foran diya ja sakta hai ya baad mein, lekin uska taayun (amount) nikah ke waqt zaroori hai.
🤲 Aakhir Mein:
Nikah ek barkat wala bandhan hai jisme mohabbat, wafadari, imaandari aur Allah ka taqwa honi chahiye. Ismein jadoo, taweez, ya kisi bhi ghair-shar’i tareeqay ki jagah nahi.
Allah Ta’ala se dua hai ke har Musalman ka nikah barkat wala ho, aur unki zindagi sukoon aur mohabbat se bhari ho.
“Allah Ta’ala sabse behtar jaane wala hai.”
✅ Nateeja (Conclusion):
Nikah Islam mein sirf ek riwayat ya rasam nahi, balki ek paak, muqaddas aur shar’i aqd hai jo do afraad aur unke khandaanon ko jodta hai. Iska asal maqsad mohabbat, samajhdaari, aur Allah Ta’ala ke hukumaat ki pabandi par mabni zindagi basar karna hai.
Nikah tabhi mukammal aur maqbool hota hai jab iejaab-o-qubool wazeh taur par aur shar’i shara’it ke mutabiq ho, wali ki raza mandi hasil ho, aur do shar’i gawah maujood hon. Rasoomat aur taqafat ke bawajood, Islam ki taaleemaat sadgi, imandari, aur halal bandhan ko farog deti hain.
Har Musalman ko chahiye ke woh apne nikah mein shar’i hadood ka khayal rakhe, aur apni zindagi mein mohabbat, wafadari aur taqwa ko buniyad banaye. Allah Ta’ala se dua hai ke wo har jodi ko apni rehmat aur barkat se nawazay, aur unki zindagi mein aman aur khushi laye.
Allah Ta’ala sabse behtar jaanta hai.
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