Shadi Islam mein ek bohat aham aur muqaddas rishta hai jo do afraad ke darmiyan na sirf mohabbat aur samajhdaari par mabni hota hai, balki shar’i usoolon aur ikhlaqiyat par bhi buniyad rakhta hai. Aaj kal ke dor mein “Love Marriage” yani apni pasand se shadi ka masla bohat zyada charcha ka mawzu hai. Sawal ye uthta hai ke kya Islam mein Love Marriage ki ijazat hai? Aaye is masle ko tafseel se samjhte hain.
Pasand Ki Shadi Karna Jaiz Hai
Islam mein kisi bhi musalman ke liye ye haqq hai ke woh apni shadi ke liye apni pasand ko ahmiyat de. Pasand ki shadi karna har haal mein ghalat nahi, balke ye ek fitri haqeeqat hai ke har fard chahata hai ke uski zindagi ka humsafar wo ho jo uske liye khushi aur sukoon ka sabab bane.
Lekin ye pasand aur intekhab shari’at ke daire mein hona zaroori hai. Matlab, pasand ki buniyad woh chizein hon jo Qur’an-o-Hadees aur islami taleemat ke mutabiq hon.
Kya Har Haalat Mein Nikah Ka Hukm Ek Jaisa Hota Hai?
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Kya Har Haalat Mein Nikah Ka Hukm Ek Jaisa Hota Hai?
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Hadees Ki Roshni Mein Shadi Ka Intekhab
Hadees-e-Nabawi (S.A.W) ke mutabiq rishtay ke intekhab mein daulat, khandan, husn, aur deen ko ahmiyat di jati hai, lekin sab se ahm cheez “Deen” hai:
“تنكح المرأة لأربع: لمالها ولحسبها ولجمالها ولدينها فاظفر بذات الدين”
(Mishkat Shareef)
Iska matlab hai ke sab se behtareen shadi wahi hai jismein dono ki deendari ho. Daulat ya khoobsurti to na-mukammal chizain hain, lekin deen par mabni shadi duniya aur aakhirat mein khushi ka zariya banti hai.
Walidain Ki Razamandi Aur Ahmiyat
Islam ne walidain ki razaamandi ko shadi mein bohat ahmiyat di hai. Nabi Kareem (S.A.W) ne farmaya ke walidain ki razaamandi ke baghair shadi karna munasib nahi. Walidain apne tajarbat aur aqal ki buniyad par rishton ki behtari ko dekhtay hain, is liye unka mashwara lena aur unki raza ko hasil karna zaroori hai.
Woh shadi jo ghar walon ki razaamandi ke baghair ki jaye, usmein zyada masail aur kharabiyaan paida hone ka khatra hota hai.
Bachon Ka Bhi Haq Hai Apni Pasand Zaroor Dikhane Ka
Islam mein bachon ko bhi haq diya gaya hai ke woh apni shadi mein apni pasand aur na-pasand izhar karen. Lekin ye pasand bhi shar’i hudood mein honi chahiye. Agar bachay apni pasand ki shadi karna chahte hain, to unhe apne walidain ki razaamandi aur mashwara bhi zaroor lena chahiye.
Shari’at Ki Hudood Se Bahar Jaa Kar Shadi Nahi Karni Chahiye
Shadi koi aisai amal nahi jo sirf jazbaat ki buniyad par ki jaye aur shari’at ki hadood ko nazarandaz kar diya jaye. Aisi shadiyaan jo ghar se baghair wali ki ijazat ke ki jayein, ya jahan zina ke qareeb hon, Islam mein na-jaiz aur haraam hain.
Mohabbat Aur Shadi Mein Balance Zaroori Hai
Mohabbat zaroori hai, lekin shadi sirf mohabbat par nahi, samajhdaari, sabr, aur aqal par bhi mabni honi chahiye. Jazbaat waqt ke saath badalte hain, is liye shadi aisi honi chahiye jismein dono taraf samajh aur imaan ho.
Shadi Ka Maksad Sirf Jismani Lutf Nahi
Afsos ke saath kehna padta hai ke aaj kal kai naujawan shadi ko sirf jismani lutf aur maza ke liye samajhne lage hain, jo bilkul ghalat soch hai. Shadi ek aisa nizam hai jo muashray ki buniyaad banata hai, aur uska maksad sirf dunya ki khushi nahi, balki akhirat ki khushi bhi hai.
Shadi Mein Bachon Aur Walidain Dono Ko Izzat Dena Chahiye
Shadi ek aisi chiz hai jismein bachon ko apne walidain ki izzat aur walidain ko apne bachon ki izzat karni chahiye. Dono taraf ek doosre ki pasand, na-pasand, aur jazbaat ka khayal rakhna chahiye taake zindagi mein mohabbat aur samajhdaari barqaraar rahe.
Aam Masail Aur Unka Hal
Love Marriage ke mamle mein aksar sabse bari mushkil yeh hoti hai ke kuch log apni pasand ko ghar walon ki razaamandi se zyada ahmiyat dete hain. Isse tanaza’at paida hotay hain jo aakhir mein shadiyan todne ka sabab banti hain.
Isliye dono taraf chahiye ke apne jazbaat ko qaboo mein rakhte hue baaqi afraad ki raza aur mashwara bhi zaroor lein.
✅ Nateeja (Conclusion):
Islam mein love marriage jaiz hai agar:
- Shari’at ke usoolon ka khayal rakha jaye
- Walidain ki razaamandi hasil ki jaye
- Dono taraf ki pasand aur deendari ko madde nazar rakha jaye
- Shadi ka maksad sirf jismani lutf na ho balki dunya aur aakhirat dono ki khushi ho
Is tareeqe se ki gayi shadi zyada paida war, khushgawar, aur mustahkam hoti hai.
Aakhir mein yeh baat yaad rakhni chahiye ke shadi sirf do logon ka rishta nahi, balki do khandanon aur ek bade muashray ka bhi taalluq hoti hai. Isliye izzat, samajh, aur deendari ke saath apni pasand ko bhi shari’at ke mutabiq tarjeeh deni chahiye.
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