💭 “Nikah – sirf do logon ka milan nahi, balki do zindagiyon, do khandaano aur do roohon ka aisa bandhan hai jo zindagi bhar ke liye zimmedariyon ka naya safar shuru karta hai.”
Lekin sawal yeh hai:
👉 Kya hum sirf shaadi ka jashn manane ki tayyari karte hain?
👉 Ya phir un asal zaroori cheezon ki bhi fikr karte hain jo ek mustahkam aur barkat wali zindagi ki buniyad banati hain?
Aksar hum mehendi, baraat aur reception ki planning mein itne masroof ho jaate hain ke Nikah se pehle ki wo tayyari bhool jaate hain jo Islam humein sabse pehle karne ki naseehat deta hai.
Chaliye, aaj hum aapko batate hain “Nikah Se Pehle Ki 5 Zaroori Tayyariyan” jo har Musalmaan ke liye samajhna aur apnana laazmi hai.
"Wali Ka Kirdar – Har Ladki Ko Kyun Chahiye Ek Hifazati Saaya?"
Har beti ke liye Wali kyun hai ek ameen aur rehnuma?
Kya yeh sirf nikaah ki shart hai ya ek zindagi bhar ki hifazat ka raaz? 🤔
📖 Poora maqala padhiye aur jaan’yiye asli haqeeqat!
1. Deeni Samajh Aur Taqwa Ki Tayyari
Nikah sirf ek social contract nahi, balki ek ibaadat hai. Agar dil mein taqwa aur deen ki samajh hogi, toh rishta barkat se bhara hoga.
- Apne aqaid, ibadat aur sunnaton ki pabandi ka irada karna.
- Qur’an o Hadith se Nikah ke ahkaam samajhna.
- Apni zindagi ko Allah ki raza ke mutabiq dhalna.
👉 Sochiye, jab shohar aur biwi dono Allah ke dar se jeete hain, toh kya unka rishta kamzor ho sakta hai?
2. Maal o Rizq Mein Halal Aur Safai
Shaadi ke baad ghar chalana mard ki zimmedari hai. Agar shuru se hi rizq halal ho toh ghar mein sakoon aur barkat aati hai.
- Apne income source ko halal aur paak banana.
- Karz aur har haram cheez se bachna.
- Simple lifestyle apnana taake unnecessary bojh na ho.
👉 Kya aapne kabhi socha hai ke haram paisa sirf jeb nahi, rishton ke sukoon ko bhi zeherila kar deta hai?
3. Ikhlaaq Aur Adaab Ki Tayyari
Nikah ke baad sabse zyada jo cheez partner ko mutasir karti hai wo hai aapka akhlaaq.
- Gussa control karna.
- Respect aur muhabbat se guftagu karna.
- Aapas mein sulh aur maafi ki aadat dalna.
👉 Aap kitne ache kapde pehente hain, ye kam dekhte hain… lekin aap kaise bartao karte hain, ye hamesha yaad rehta hai.
4. Jismani Aur Zehni Sehat Ki Tayyari
Shaadi ek nayi zimmedari aur lifestyle ka naam hai. Iske liye jismani aur zehni dono sehat ka behtareen hona zaroori hai.
- Apne medical checkups karwana.
- Stress aur anxiety ko manage karna.
- Nikah ke haqooq aur zimmedariyon ko samajhne ki mental preparation karna.
👉 Aap ek healthy zindagi ke saath partner ko sukoon de sakte hain, ya ek bemar aur pareshaan zindagi ke saath uski musibat ban sakte hain… faisla aapke haath mein hai.
5. Dua Aur Mashwara Ki Tayyari
Sabse aham cheez – har kaam ko Allah ke hawaale karna.
- Nikah se pehle istikhara aur dua karna.
- Apne buzurgon, wali, ya deen samajhne wale se mashwara lena.
- Zindagi ke naye safar ke liye Allah se barkat aur asaaniyan talab karna.
👉 Kya aapne socha hai ke zindagi ka yeh naya safar apke khud ke bas mein nahi… balki Allah ki madad se hi aasaan banega?
✅ Nateeja (Conclusion):
Nikah ke liye kapde, mehmaan aur hall ka intezam ek din ka hota hai. Lekin Deen, Akhlaaq, Rizq, Sehat aur Dua ki tayyari puri zindagi ka sukoon ban jaati hai.
Isliye, apni shaadi ko sirf ek function na samajhiye —
💍 Usse ek ibaadat samajhiye.
📖 Usse apni zindagi ki nayi kitaab ka pehla safha samajhiye.
Aur yaad rakhiye:
👉 Jo apni tayyari Allah ke liye karta hai, uska Nikah sirf zameen par nahi, Arsh par bhi izzat aur barkat paata hai.
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