Nikah — ek aisa safar jo sirf do logon ko nahi, balke do zindagiyon, do gharanon aur do naslon ko jodta hai. Har ladki aur ladka ek “achi shadi” ka khwab dekhte hain, lekin sawal yeh uthta hai:
Achi shadi ki buniyaad khubsurti par hai ya taqwa par?
Yehi woh sawal hai jo aksar dilon ko uljhan mein daal deta hai. Aaj ke zamane mein log zyada tar chehre ki chamak aur outer personality ko ahmiyat dete hain, lekin kya yeh asal mein ek lambi aur barkat wali zindagi ki zameen ban sakti hai? Ya phir wo taqwa, jo Allah se darne ka jazba hai, asal quwwat ban kar nikaah ko mazboot karta hai?
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🌹 1. Khubsurti – Ek Fitrat Ka Jazba
Insaan fitratan khubsurti ki taraf khinchta hai. Jab nikaah ki baat aati hai, to har koi chahta hai ke uska life partner pyaara, khoobsurat aur pasandeeda lage. Rasoolullah ﷺ ne bhi farmaya:
“Aurat se shadi 4 cheezon ki wajah se ki jati hai: maal, nasab, husn aur deen. Tum deen wali ko tarjeeh do, tumhari khushhali isi mein hai.” (Bukhari, Muslim)
Yani husn ko nazarandaz nahi kiya gaya, lekin use asal buniyad bhi nahi banaya gaya. Kyun?
Kyunki khubsurti waqt ke sath badal jaati hai. Jawan chehra buzurgi mein dhal jata hai, rangeen aankhein thak jaati hain, aur surkh galiyaan apna rang khona lagti hain. Agar sirf husn par nikaah khada kiya ho, to waqt ke sath wo buniyaad kamzor pad jaati hai.
🌙 2. Taqwa – Zindagi Bhar Ki Rahnumai
Taqwa ka matlab hai Allah se dar kar zindagi guzarni. Jab ek shauhar taqwa wala hota hai, to wo apni biwi ke sath insaf karta hai. Jab ek biwi taqwa wali hoti hai, to wo har haal mein apne shauhar ka saath deti hai.
Sochiye, ek aisa ghar jahan:
- Shauhar biwi ki izzat kare,
- Biwi shauhar ki ita’at kare,
- Dono mil kar Allah ki raza hasil karne ki koshish karein…
Kya aisa ghar kabhi toot sakta hai?
Nahi. Kyunki unke darmiyan sirf mohabbat nahi, balke Allah ka khauf aur deen ki rahnumai hoti hai.
🌸 3. Khubsurti Aur Taqwa Ka Taqaabul
Aaj ke zamane mein aksar rishtedaar sabse pehle yeh sawal karte hain:
“Ladki kaisi lagti hai?”
“Ladka handsome hai ya nahi?”
Lekin sach yeh hai ke:
- Husn dil ko kheenchta hai,
- Lekin taqwa zindagi ko sanwarti hai.
Ek khoobsurat shaks bhi agar gusse wala, be-din aur ghair zimmedar nikle to zindagi zehar ban jaati hai. Aur ek saadgi pasand, lekin taqwa wala shaks zindagi ko jannat bana deta hai.
🌙 4. Nikah Mein Barkat Ka Raaz
Achi shadi ka raaz yeh nahi ke aapka partner super model jaisa ho. Achi shadi ka raaz yeh hai ke aapka partner aapko deen ki taraf aur Allah ki raza ki taraf kheenchne wala ho.
Rasoolullah ﷺ ne ek aur hadees mein irshaad farmaya:
“Duniya ek faida hai, aur duniya ka behtareen faida ek nek biwi hai.” (Muslim)
Yani asli husn wo hai jo deen aur taqwa se roshan ho.
🌸 5. Tawaazun – Dono Ki Ahmiyat
Islam yeh nahi kehta ke husn ko bilkul ignore kar do. Balke, shadi mein jazbati sukoon aur physical attraction bhi zaroori hai. Lekin asal sawal yeh hai ke aap kis ko zyada ahmiyat dete hain?
- Agar husn sab kuch ban jaye, to nikaah kamzor ho jata hai.
- Agar taqwa buniyaad ho, to husn bhi ek achhi nemat ban kar rehta hai.
🌙 Nateeja – Achi Shadi Ki Asal Buniyaad
Achi shadi na sirf chehre se chamakti hai, balke dilon se roshan hoti hai. Khubsurti ki chamak waqt ke sath kam ho jaati hai, lekin taqwa ka noor waqt ke sath barhta hai.
👉 Is liye, agar aap ek barkat wali aur sakoon bhari shadi chahte hain to husn ko dekhiye, lekin buniyaad hamesha taqwa ko banaiye.
Aap kya sochte hain?
Kya aap ke nazdeek zindagi bhar ki khushi husn mein chhupi hai ya taqwa mein?
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