Allah Ta’ala ki tareef, aur Nabi Muhammad ﷺ par salam aur barkat ho.
Zindagi ka sabse ahem faisla kya hota hai?
Kis se shaadi ki jaye.
Yeh faisla sirf ek larki ka mustaqbil nahi, balki uske aane wale naslon ko bhi mutasir karta hai.
Agar aap yeh soch rahi hain:
“Kya woh mere liye theek hai?”
To Islam ne aap ke liye kuch raushan pehlu aur khubsurat rehnumai chhodi hai. Aaiye jaante hain woh 7 zaroori khoobiyaan jo har Muslima ko apne hone wale Shohar mein dekhni chahiye:
“Nikah Halala: Kya yeh ghalat samjha gaya ya jaan bujh kar ghalat istemaal ho raha hai?
Yeh article aapki soch ko jhatka dega — zaroor padhiye, haqeeqat jaan kar hairaan reh jayenge!”**
1️⃣ Sabse Pehle: Deen Daari Aur Taqwa
Yeh sirf mashwara nahi — yeh aapke dil, ghar aur akhirat ke liye protection hai.
🔑 Jo Allah ka khauf rakhta hai, woh kabhi apni biwi ke saath na-insafi nahi karega.
🔑 Jo namaz ka paband hai, woh haq ada karne wala shohar banega.
Rasoolullah ﷺ ne farmaya:
“Jab tumhare paas koi aisa rishta aaye jiska deen aur akhlaaq tumhein pasand aaye, to us se shaadi kar do…”
(Tirmidhi)
To sabse pehle dekhein:
Kya woh waqai Allah ka banda hai?
2️⃣ Acha Akhlaaq: Narmi Aur Adal
Asliyat ye hai: Acha mard woh hai jo biwiyon se narmi se pesh aaye.
Nabi ﷺ ne aik rishtay ke mutaliq farmaya:
“Abu Jahm ka asa uske kandhe se nahi utarta”
(Matlab: woh auraton ko maarta tha.)
✅ Dekhiye: Kya woh aurton ki izzat karta hai? Kya uska lehja narm hai?
3️⃣ Nek Khandaan Se Talluq
Shaadi do logon ki hoti hai — lekin uska asar poore khandaan par hota hai.
📜 Quran mein Surah Al-Kahf mein farmaya gaya:
“Aur un donon ka baap ek nek shakhs tha, to tumhare Rab ne chaha ke woh jawani ko pahunch kar apna khazana nikaal lein.”
Yani: Baap ki neki, bachon ke haq mein barkat ban gayi.
Isi liye, nek khandaan se aana ek plus point hai.
4️⃣ Maliyat (Financial Stability) – Zyada Nahi, Magar Kafi
Islam ye nahi kehta ke Shohar ameer ho — lekin itna ho ke ghar chalay sake, bheek na maangni pade.
Nabi ﷺ ne aik larki ko mashwara diya:
“Muawiyah ke paas maal nahi hai…”
(Muslim)
Yani: Shohar ka zimmedar hona zaroori hai, chahe woh businessman ho ya aam nokri karta ho.
5️⃣ Sehatmand Aur Fit Shakhs
Agar mard sehatmand ho, zehni taur par theek ho, aur bacho se mehroom na ho — to yeh ek achi baat hai.
Yeh lazmi nahi, lekin shaadi ke liye yeh bhi ek aham pehlu hai.
6️⃣ Quran-o-Sunnat Ki Samajh — Agar Mil Jaye To Ne’mat
Aisa Shohar jo aapko deen sikhaaye, Quran padhaye, aur bacho ki tarbiyat mein rehnuma bane — yeh aaj kal rare hai.
Lekin agar aapko aisa mil jaye — uski qadr karein.
7️⃣ Istikhara Aur Tehqiqat: Dil Se Dua Karein
Faislay se pehle:
🔍 Shohar ke baare mein logon se poochhein — jo uske kareebi hon.
👀 Usse dekh sakti hain, lekin mahram ki mojoodgi mein.
🛐 Phir dil se Istikhara karein, aur Allah se behtareen faislay ki dua karein.
Quran kehta hai:
“…aur jab faisla kar lo to Allah par bharosa karo. Beshak Allah bharosa karne walon se muhabbat karta hai.”
(Surah Aal-Imran)
💌 Aakhri Baat: Khushgawar Nikah Ka Raaz
Aaj ke daur mein log sirf “look”, “lifestyle” aur “luxury” dekhte hain.
Lekin Islam keh raha hai:
✨ Jo Allah se darta hai
✨ Jo aurton ki izzat karta hai
✨ Jo sabr aur rahm se bhara ho
✨ Jo Jannat ki dua karta ho — aapke saath
Wohi Shohar banne ke laayak hai.
Aur yaad rakhein: Aapki duaon mein taqat hai. Allah zaroor sunta hai. Apne sujood mein us se apne liye behtareen Shohar aur aulad ki dua maangti rahiye — Ameen 🤍
Is message ko kisi behan ke saath zaroor share karein — shayad yeh uski zindagi badal de.
Agar aap ready hain apna rishta shuru karne ke liye — to pehla qadam duaa aur deen ke sath uthaiye.
Aapki Nikah ki kahani aaj se likhi ja sakti hai, in sha Allah!
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