Nikah, Islam ka ek paak aur moqaddas bandhan hai jo sirf do fard ke darmiyan mohabbat aur wafadari ka waada nahi, balki do khandanon ke darmiyan izzat, barakat aur rishton ka silsila bhi banata hai. Lekin aaj ke daur mein ek sawal bohot zyada uthta hai: “Kya Maa Baap ki razaamandi Nikah ka laazmi hissa hai, ya sirf ek samaji formality?”
Ye sawal na sirf jawan larkon aur larkiyon ke zehanon mein ghoomta hai, balki maa baap khud bhi is maslay par sochne par majboor ho jaate hain. Aaiye is pehlu ko Qur’an, Sunnat aur samaji haqiqat ki roshni mein samajhne ki koshish karte hain.
“Walima Ka Maqsad Kya Hai? Sunnat Ya Sirf Shaan Dikhane Ka Zariya?”
Walima – ek khubsurat rasm ya ek bhooli hui sunnat? Aaj ke daur mein yeh function zyada kis cheez ka izhar hai: shukriya ya shaan?
Agar aap samajhte hain ke walima sirf ek party hai… toh ho sakta hai aap kuch bohot zaroori miss kar rahe hain.
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Nikah Mein Maa Baap Ki Ahmiyat
Islam ne maa baap ko bepanah izzat aur maqam diya hai. Qur’an mein baar-baar maa baap ke saath husn-e-sulook aur unki ita’at ka zikr milta hai. Nikah bhi ek ahem faisla hai jo zindagi ka rukh tay karta hai. Is liye maa baap ki dua aur razaamandi ko “barakat ka zariya” kaha gaya hai.
Rasool Allah ﷺ ne farmaya:
“Walid ki raza mein Allah ki raza hai, aur walid ki nafrat mein Allah ki nafrat.”
(Ibn Majah)
Yani agar walidain khush hain, to Allah bhi khush hai – aur agar naraaz, to Allah bhi naraaz.
Kya Maa Baap Ki Razaamandi Nikah Ki Shart Hai?
Yahan ek confusion bohot aam hai. Fiqhi taur par dekha jaye to:
- Aqalmand, baligh larki apna nikah apne faislay se kar sakti hai. Lekin wali (guardian) ka hona mustahab aur aksar mazhabi fuqaha ke nazdeek laazmi samjha gaya hai, taake larki ki hifazat ho aur usay ghalat faislay se bachaya jaa sake.
- Maa baap ki dua aur razaamandi Nikah ki roohani aur samaji mazbooti ke liye zaroori hai.
Yani agar shariyat ka dekha jaye to Nikah valid hai, lekin maa baap ki razaamandi us mein Allah ki barakat aur samaji izzat bhar deti hai.
Aaj Ke Daur Ki Haqiqat
Naye daur mein aksar larkay aur larkiyan apna life partner khud select karte hain. Is mein koi harj nahi, jab tak shariyat ke daayray mein ho. Lekin problem tab hoti hai jab:
- Maa baap ko bilkul ignore kar diya jata hai.
- Unki izzat aur jazbaat ko thokar mari jati hai.
- Decision “sirf personal choice” samajh kar liya jata hai.
Result? Ghar toot-te hain, rishtay khandanon mein dushmani ka sabab bante hain, aur wo barakat jo Allah ne walidain ki duaon mein rakhi hai – woh kho jati hai.
Sirf Formality Ya Laazmi Hissa?
Agar hum samajhte hain ke maa baap ki razaamandi sirf ek formality hai, to shayad hum Nikah ke asal maqasid ko samajh nahi paaye. Nikah ek aisa bandhan hai jo sirf do dilon ke darmiyan nahi, balki do khandanon ko jodta hai.
Maa baap ki razaamandi:
- Ek duaa ka zariya hai jo zindagi ko aasaan bana deti hai.
- Ek guarantee hai ke rishta izzat aur mohabbat ke sath qaim hoga.
- Ek barakat hai jo sirf walidain ki tasleem se milti hai.
Balance Ka Tareeqa
Na to apni pasand ko dabaana laazmi hai, aur na hi maa baap ki izzat ko thokar marna. Behtareen tareeqa yeh hai:
- Apni pasand share karein – Imaandari se maa baap ko apna faisla batayein.
- Shariyat ko samjhayen – Agar partner deendar aur khandan theek hai, to unko daleel ke sath tasleem karwayen.
- Duaa aur patience – Agar maa baap foran na maanain, to unki naraazgi ka samna sabr aur duaa se karein.
Nateeja
Toh jawab yeh hai: Maa Baap ki Razaamandi Nikah ki shar’i shart to nahi, lekin uski rooh, barakat aur izzat ka bunyadi hissa hai.
Agar hum chahte hain ke zindagi ka safar sukoon aur khushi ke sath guzre, to maa baap ke dil ko razi karna sirf samaji formality nahi, balki ibadat hai.
👉 Ab sawal aap ke liye:
Aap ke nazdeek zyada ahem kya hai – sirf apni pasand ke mutabiq partner chuna, ya maa baap ki duaon ke sath zindagi ka naya safar shuru karna?
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