Introduction – Ek Aisa Sawal Jo Har Shadi Shuda Zindagi Ko Choo Leta Hai
Socho… ek larki jisne apni zindagi ka naya safar shuru kiya, dil mein umeedein aur sapne le kar nikah ke bandhan mein aayi. Usne socha ke ab uske liye ek naya asra hoga, ek humsafar hoga jo na sirf mohabbat dega balki uski zimmedariyan bhi uthayega. Magar kuch mahine guzarte hi woh dekhne lagti hai ke ghar ke kharche, zarooratein aur rozmarrah ki mushkilat sirf uske kandhon par aa girti hain.
Yahan ek buniyaadi sawal uthta hai: Nikah Aur Nafaqa – Shohar Ka Farz Ya Optional Ehsaan?
Kya kharch chalana aur biwi ke liye zaroori cheezen faraham karna sirf ek ihsaan hai jo shohr chahe to kare, aur chahe to na kare? Ya phir yeh Islam ke nazdeek ek laazmi farz hai jise kisi surat mein nazarandaz nahi kiya ja sakta?
Aaiye is maqale mein hum Quran o Sunnat, Islamic fiqh aur real-life misaalon ki roshni mein samajhne ki koshish karte hain ke asal mein nafaqa ka maqam kya hai, aur shohr ke zimmedariyan kis had tak hain.
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Nafaqa Ka Matlab Aur Ahmiyat
Nafaqa ka lafzi matlab hai: kharch ya zaroori asbaab-e-zindagi faraham karna. Is mein makan, kapra, khana, ilaaj aur dighar zaroori kharche shamil hain jo ek insaan ki zindagi chalane ke liye darkar hain.
Quran Mein Nafaqa Ka Tazkara
Allah Ta’ala ne Quran-e-Kareem mein shohr par nafqa wajib qarar diya:
“Aur maaon ko unke bachon ke liye doodh pilane ka hukm hai… aur unka kharch unki khilat ka zimma us baap par hai.” (Surah Al-Baqarah: 233)
Yahan saaf taur par kaha gaya ke biwi aur bacho ka kharch shohr ke zimma hai.
Hadith Ki Roshni Mein
Rasoolullah ﷺ ne farmaya:
“Tum mein behtareen wo hai jo apne ghar walon ke liye behtareen ho, aur main apne ghar walon ke liye tum sab se behtareen hoon.” (Tirmidhi)
Yani ghar walon ke liye kharch karna na sirf farz hai balki ek shaan aur nek amal bhi hai.
Nafaqa – Shohar Ka Farz
Islam ne nafqa ko shohr ki zimmedari banaya hai, optional ehsaan nahi. Kuch ahem points:
- Shohr par biwi ka makan aur mehfooz rehne ki jagah faraham karna wajib hai.
- Khana, kapra aur ilaaj ka intizam bhi shohr ka zimma hai.
- Nafaqa sirf us waqt farz hai jab biwi shariyat ke mutabiq apne shohr ke saath rehti ho aur apne haqooq ada karti ho.
- Agar shohr nafqa ada nahi karta, to biwi ko haqq hai ke wo shariyat ya qanoon ke zariye apna haq maange.
Nafaqa Ko Ehsaan Samajhne Ki Ghalat Soch
Bohat se mard aaj bhi yeh samajhte hain ke ghar chalana ya biwi ke liye kharch karna unka ehsaan hai. Wo kehte hain:
“Main jo kamata hoon, tum par kharch karta hoon – warna mujhe kya zaroorat thi?”
Lekin asal mein yeh soch Islam ki roshni mein ghalat hai.
Kyun Yeh Soch Ghalat Hai?
- Allah ka hukum hai – Nafaqa shohr par Allah ne laazmi kiya hai.
- Biwi ki mehnat ko nazarandaz karna – Biwi bhi ghar sambhalti hai, bachon ki tarbiyat karti hai, jo kisi qisam ka chhota kaam nahi.
- Rishton mein imbalance – Jab shohr nafqa ko ehsaan samajhta hai, to biwi ke dil mein shukriya se zyada majboori ka ehsaas jagta hai.
Real-Life Misaal
Shazia aur Ahmed ki shaadi hui. Ahmed achi naukri karta tha, magar aksar kehta: “Main tum par paisa kharch karke tumhara ehsaan kar raha hoon.”
Shazia chup rehti, magar andar hi andar toot rahi thi. Ek din usne kaha: “Ehsaan nahi kar rahe aap, sirf apna farz ada kar rahe hain.”
Ye misaal dikhati hai ke nafqa ko ehsaan samajhne se rishton mein khushbu ki jagah khudgarzi ki badboo aa jati hai.
Nafaqa Aur Aaj Ka Zamana
Aaj ke modern society mein kai aurton ne bhi kamana shuru kar diya hai. Lekin iska matlab yeh nahi ke shohr nafqa dena band kar de.
Zaroori Points:
- Agar biwi kamati hai, to bhi shohr ka nafqa ada karna farz hai.
- Biwi ki kamai uski apni hai, shohr ka us par haq nahi jab tak wo khud raza-mandi se na de.
- Shohr aur biwi dono agar mil kar ghar chalayein to yeh ek partnership ban jati hai – lekin iska matlab yeh nahi ke shohr apni zimmedari se haath utha le.
Nafaqa Ka Asar Rishton Par
Ek shohr jo khushi khushi apna farz ada karta hai, uske ghar mein sukoon aur mohabbat rehti hai.
Lekin jab shohr nafqa ko optional samajhta hai, to:
- Biwi ke dil mein nafrat paida hoti hai.
- Rishton mein stress aur jhagde barh jate hain.
- Bachon ki tarbiyat par bura asar padta hai.
Nafaqa Ada Karne Ki Barakat
Rasoolullah ﷺ ne farmaya:
“Jab aadmi apne ghar walon par kharch karta hai aur Allah ki raza ke liye karta hai, to yeh bhi uske liye sadqa hai.” (Bukhari, Muslim)
Yani nafqa dena sirf farz nahi, balki ibadat aur sadqa ka sawab bhi hai.
Nafaqa Se Judi Kuch Ghalat Fehmiyan
- “Agar biwi kamati hai to shohr ko dene ki zaroorat nahi” – Yeh ghalat hai. Shohr ka nafqa hamesha farz hai.
- “Nafaqa sirf ameer shohr par farz hai” – Nahi, jo bhi shohr hai us par apni haisiyat ke mutabiq dena wajib hai.
- “Kapra aur khana hi kaafi hai” – Nahi, ilaaj, talim aur basic zarooratein bhi nafqa mein shamil hain.
Shohr Aur Biwi Ke Liye Paigham
- Shohr apne farz ko ehsaan na samjhein.
- Biwi nafqa ko haq samjhe magar shohr ki qadr bhi kare.
- Dono apne rishtay ko mohabbat, imandari aur zimmedari ke sath nibhaein.
Conclusion – Farz Ko Ehsaan Mat Banao
Nikah ek paak bandhan hai jahan mohabbat ke saath saath zimmedariyan bhi shamil hain. Nafaqa shohr ka farz hai, optional ehsaan nahi. Is farz ko samajhna aur ada karna hi ek mohabbat bhare, imaan se roshan ghar ki buniyad hai.
Aap bhi sochiye:
Agar hum apne farz ko ehsaan bana dein to rishton ki khubsurti kahin kho jaati hai. Kya aap bhi apne rishton ko sirf lafzon ka nahi, zimmedariyon aur haqooq ka sachha saath banana chahte hain?
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