Introduction: Ek Sawal Jo Har Ghar Mein Goonjta Hai
Sochiye, ek larki ke ghar rishta aata hai. Larka settled hai, apna ghar hai, achhi naukri karta hai, lekin deen mein kamzor hai. Doosri taraf ek aisa larka hai jo deeni taur par mazboot hai, imaandaar hai, ibadat mein lagan hai, magar paisa kam hai. Ab sawal uthta hai: Nikah ke liye paisa dekhein ya deen? Aaj ka sabse bada sawal yeh hi hai.
Yeh sawal sirf ek ghar ka nahi, balki har us Muslim family ka hai jo apni beti ya bete ka nikah karne ka sochti hai. Aaj ke daur mein materialistic society mein paisa aur status ko deen aur character par tarjeeh dena aam baat ban gayi hai. Lekin asal haqeeqat kya hai? Deen kya kehta hai? Aur zindagi ke tajurbe humein kya sikhate hain?
Chaliye, is garm maslay ko gehraai se samajhne ki koshish karte hain.
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Nikah Ki Ahmiyat – Sirf Rishta Nahi, Ibadat Hai
Islam mein nikah sirf ek social contract nahi, balki ek ibadat hai. Qur’an aur Hadith mein nikah ki bohot fazilat bayan ki gayi hai.
- Qur’an mein Allah ne farmaya:
“Aur unse nikah karo jo tumhe pasand ho, agar woh gareeb bhi hon, Allah apne fazl se unhein ghani bana dega.” (Surah An-Nur 32) - Nabi ﷺ ne farmaya:
“Aur jab tumhe kisi ka deen aur akhlaq pasand aaye toh uska nikah kar do. Agar tum aisa na karoge toh zameen mein fitna aur fasaad phail jaayega.” (Tirmidhi)
Yeh dono daleelein humein ek clear message deti hain: nikah ka buniyadi basis deen aur akhlaq hone chahiye, paisa baad mein aata hai.
Paisa Aur Deen Ka Taqabuli Sawal – Kyun Paida Hota Hai?
Aaj ka zamana practical hai. Har koi kehta hai “paisa zaroori hai, warna zindagi kaise chalegi?” Is wajah se har ghar ka pehla sawal hota hai:
- Larke ki salary kitni hai?
- Ghar apna hai ya nahi?
- Gadi hai ya nahi?
- Family status kaisa hai?
Aur deen? Wahan bas ek nominal check lagta hai – namaz padhta hai ya nahi, bas.
Magar asal masla yeh hai ke paisa aur deen ka sawal is liye paida hota hai kyunki humari priorities shift ho gayi hain. Aaj hum duniya ke comfort ko akhirat ke sukoon par tarjeeh dete hain.
Deen Ko Tarjeeh Dene Ke Fawaid
Agar hum nikah mein deen ko sabse aage rakhein, toh iska asar sirf dunya mein nahi, akhirat mein bhi hota hai.
1. Zindagi Mein Sukoon Aur Barakat
Ek deeni shohar ya biwi ghar ko sirf materialistic cheezon par nahi chalata, balki Allah ki raza par chalata hai.
- Namaz ke zariye ghar mein roohaniat aati hai.
- Allah ka zikr barakat laata hai.
- Ek doosre ke saath sabr aur shukr ki rooh banti hai.
2. Aulad Ki Tarbiyat Behtareen Hoti Hai
Aaj ke daur mein sabse bara challenge bachon ki upbringing hai. Agar walidain deeni honge toh aulad sirf duniya hi nahi, akhirat ke liye bhi tayyar hoti hai.
3. Musibat Mein Himat
Paisa aata jaata hai, lekin deen insaan ko himmat deta hai. Jab mushkilat aati hain, deeni soch aur tawakkul hi insaan ko sambhalte hain.
Paisa Ki Ahmiyat – Kya Bilkul Nazarandaz Karna Chahiye?
Ab yeh kehna bhi ghalat hoga ke paisa ki koi ahmiyat hi nahi. Nikah ke baad practical zindagi chalani hoti hai, aur uske liye minimum financial stability zaroori hai.
1. Zaroorat Aur Comfort Mein Farq
- Zaroorat: Khana, kapda, makaan aur basic expenses.
- Comfort: Luxurious lifestyle, branded cheezein, high-class living.
Nikah ke liye paisa itna zaroori hai ke zaroorat poori ho sake. Lekin agar hum comfort ke liye deen sacrifice karein, toh yeh ghata ka soda hai.
2. Financial Responsibility Ki Shariat Mein Ahmiyat
Islam mein shohar par biwi aur bachon ka kharch farz hai. Agar ek mard apne ghar ka kharch hi nahi utha sakta, toh masail paida honge. Is liye mard ka responsible aur kamane wala hona bhi aham hai.
Real-Life Examples – Paisa Ya Deen?
Example 1: Paisa Zyada, Deen Kam
Ek larki ki shaadi ek wealthy businessman se hui. Lifestyle high-class tha, lekin namaz aur deen ki ahmiyat ghar mein zero thi. Kuch arse baad misunderstandings, ego clashes aur bacho ki upbringing par disputes shuru ho gaye. Result: divorce.
Example 2: Deen Zyada, Paisa Kam
Ek larki ne ek imam masjid se shaadi ki. Paisa limited tha, lekin sabr aur shukr ne ghar ko mazboot banaye rakha. Allah ne waqt ke saath unhein aasan rizq bhi ata kiya aur aulad ne deen mein achhi tarbiyat paayi.
Yeh dono examples dikhate hain ke deen ko tarjeeh dena zyada sustainable hai.
Balancing Act – Paisa Aur Deen Dono Ka Ittehad
Sabse behtareen rishta woh hai jahan deen aur paisa dono ho. Lekin agar dono mein se ek ko choose karna pade, toh deen ko tarjeeh dena hi behtareen hai.
Practical Advice For Families:
- Rishtay dekhte waqt pehla sawaal character aur deen ka hona chahiye.
- Financial stability sirf zarooraton ke liye check karein, luxuries ke liye nahi.
- Apni betiyon ko sabr aur shukr ki talim dein, taki woh har haal mein khush reh saken.
- Apne beton ko taleem aur halal earning ki tarbiyat dein, taki deen aur dunya dono sambhal saken.
Nikah Ke Liye Paisa Dekhein Ya Deen? – Islam Ka Jawab
Islam ka jawab simple hai: deen ko tarjeeh do, paisa Allah apne fazl se de dega.
Hadith mein Nabi ﷺ ne farmaya:
“Aurat se chaar cheezon ki wajah se nikah kiya jata hai: maal, husn, khandan aur deen. Tum deen wali ko tarjeeh do, warna tum nuqsan mein rahoge.” (Bukhari & Muslim)
Conclusion – Aaj Ka Sabse Bada Sawal, Aap Ka Jawab
Toh phir, Nikah ke liye paisa dekhein ya deen? Aaj ka sabse bada sawal ka jawab yeh hai: deen pehle, paisa baad mein.
Paisa zindagi chalata hai, lekin deen zindagi banata hai. Paisa ghar banata hai, lekin deen usmein sukoon laata hai. Paisa aaj hai kal nahi, lekin deen duniya aur akhirat dono mein saath deta hai.
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