Introduction: Ek Sawal Jo Dil Ko Hila De
Sochiye… ek larki apni zindagi ka sabse bada faisla karti hai – nikah. Uska dil umeedon se bhara hota hai, aankhon mein naye khwabon ki roshni chamak rahi hoti hai. Lekin kya hoga agar shaadi ke baad usse pata chale ke jo insaan apne aap ko ek roop mein dikhata tha, asal mein waisa tha hi nahi?
Ek pal mein khwab bikhar jaate hain. Mohabbat aur sukoon ki jagah shikayat aur gussa aa jaata hai. Aur yeh sab ek hi wajah se hota hai – Nikah mein asliyat chhupana.
Is blog mein hum samjhenge ke kyun nikah mein asliyat chhupana bharosa tootne ki buniyaad hai, iska anjaam kya hota hai, aur kaise hum isse bach kar apna rishta mazboot aur Jannat ka zariya bana sakte hain.
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Nikah – Sirf Mohabbat Nahi, Balki Bharose Ka Bandhan
Islam mein nikah ko sirf do logon ke milne ka zariya nahi kaha gaya, balki yeh ek amanat hai.
Quran mein farmaya gaya:
“Aur unke saath nek sulook se zindagi guzaaro.” (Surah An-Nisa: 19)
Yani, husband aur wife ka rishta izzat, sachchai aur amanat par qaim hona chahiye. Jab nikah mein sach chhupaya jaata hai, toh rishtay ki buniyad hi kamzor ho jaati hai.
Nikah Mein Asliyat Chhupana – Bharosa Tootne Ki Buniyaad Hai
1. Bharosa Rishtay Ki Neev Hai
Jab do log nikah ke bandhan mein bandhte hain, toh unka pehla taqaza bharosa hota hai. Agar ek partner apne maazi, apne habits, ya apni financial situation ke baare mein sachchayi nahi batata, toh yeh bharosa todne ke barabar hai.
Jaise ek imarat mazboot buniyad ke bina tik nahin sakti, waise hi shaadi bhi bharose ke bina chal nahin sakti.
2. Asliyat Chhupane Se Rishtay Mein Shaq Aur Fasaad
Imagine kijiye:
- Ek husband shaadi se pehle apni job ya income ko zyada dikhata hai, lekin asal mein aisa nahi hota.
- Ek wife apne health issue ya kisi zimmedari ko छुपा leti hai.
- Ya phir dono apne family background ya aadat ko galat tareeqe se present karte hain.
Jab asal baat baad mein saamne aati hai, toh partner ke dil mein sirf shak, gussa aur narazgi reh jaati hai. Rishta chal to sakta hai, lekin usme mohabbat aur sakoon khatam ho jaata hai.
3. Sunnat Humein Kya Sikhati Hai?
Rasoolullah ﷺ ne hamesha sachchai aur imandari par zor diya. Aap ﷺ ne farmaya:
“Jo humein dhoka deta hai, woh hum mein se nahi hai.” (Muslim)
Yani nikah jaise paak rishtay mein jhoot ya dhokha bilkul jagah nahi rakhta. Sunnat humein yeh sikhati hai ke agar aap apni asal surat mein apne partner ke saamne aayenge, tabhi aapka rishta Jannat ka safar banega.
Real-Life Kahani: Bharosa Toota, Rishta Bikhra
Ek larki ki kahani bahut mashhoor hai jise shaadi ke baad pata chala ke uske shauhar ki ek purani aadat – gambling – abhi tak chhupi hui thi. Shaadi se pehle usne apne aap ko ek imaandar aur seedha insaan dikhaya, lekin asal baat छुपा ली.
Result? Shaadi ke kuch mahine baad hi fights shuru ho gayi. Larki ka dil bhar gaya. Usne kaha: “Main sab bardasht kar leti, lekin jhoot aur dhokha bardasht nahi kar sakti.”
Yeh kahani humein ek simple sabak deti hai: Nikah mein asliyat chhupana bharosa todne ki buniyaad hai. Aur jab bharosa toot jata hai, toh mohabbat bhi dheere-dheere khatam ho jaati hai.
Nikah Mein Asliyat Chhupane Ki Wajahen
Aksar log sochte hain ke woh kuch baatein shaadi ke baad bataenge, ya phir kuch sachaiyan छुपाना unke liye “safe” hai. Lekin asal mein yeh rishtay ki buniyad todne ka pehla qadam hota hai.
Common Reasons:
- Reject hone ka dar – “Agar main sach bolunga toh shayad shaadi toot jaye.”
- Society ka pressure – Family background ya financial status ko behtar dikhane ki koshish.
- Personal flaws छुपाना – Jaise health issues, past mistakes, ya bad habits.
Lekin asal mein, yeh sab kuch temporary relief deta hai. Sach hamesha saamne aata hai, aur us waqt dard aur shikast aur bhi zyada hoti hai.
Kaise Bachayein Nikah Ko Is Galti Se?
1. Shuru Se Imandari Ikhtiyar Karein
Shaadi ke faisle se pehle jitna mumkin ho, apni asal surat saamne rakhein. Zaroori nahi ke aap apne har raaz khol dein, lekin jo cheezen directly rishtay ko affect karti hain – jaise income, job stability, health, aur maazi ki zimmedariyan – woh bata dena chahiye.
2. Mashwara Deeni Tareeqe Se Karein
Shaadi ek bara faisla hai. Isme ma-baap, elders aur deen ke ulamah ka mashwara lena chahiye. Mashwara sirf duniya ke faide ke liye nahi, balki akhirat ki bhalayi ke liye hota hai.
3. Khud Se Sawal Karein
- Kya main apne partner ke saath imandari se chal raha hoon?
- Kya jo main dikhata hoon, asal mein bhi waisa hi hoon?
- Kya agar kal sach saamne aaya, toh main apne partner ki aankhon mein dekh paunga?
4. Sunnat Nikah Ko Follow Karein
Sadgi, imandari aur mohabbat se nikah karein. Extravagance aur dikhawa hi jhoot ko janam dete hain. Jab shaadi Sunnat ke tareeqe se hoti hai, toh asliyat छुपाने ki zarurat hi mehsoos nahi hoti.
Nikah Mein Bharose Ko Mazboot Karne Ke Liye Tips
Husband ke liye:
- Apne career aur financial position ke baare mein clear rahen.
- Wife ke saath har faisle mein transparency rakhen.
- Uski izzat aur mohabbat ke saath taluq nibhayein.
Wife ke liye:
- Apni pasand, dislike aur maazi ki zimmedariyan khule taur par share karein.
- Husband par unnecessary pressure na daalein.
- Trust aur mohabbat ko pehli priority banayein.
Dono ke liye:
- Har baat pehle din se clear rakhein.
- Jhoot ya exaggeration se bachein.
- Har faisle mein Allah ko gawah banayein.
Conclusion: Rishtay Ki Buniyad – Sachchai
Nikah duniya ka sabse khoobsurat safar hai. Lekin yeh safar tabhi khoobsurat ban sakta hai jab iska pehla qadam sachchai aur imandari par ho.
Aaj ke daur mein log shayad samajhte hain ke kuch baatein छुपाने se nikah aasan ho jaata hai, lekin asal mein yeh sabse bari ghalti hai. Nikah mein asliyat chhupana bharosa tootne ki buniyaad hai, aur jab bharosa toot jata hai, toh rishta bhi apni rooh khota hai.
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