Nikah – ek aisi sunnat jo insaan ki zindagi mein sukoon, mohabbat aur barkat laati hai. Lekin aaj ke daur mein hum sab ne dekha hai ke ek saral aur paak rishta bhi mushkil aur pechida ban gaya hai. Sawal uthta hai: Nikah mein rukawat kya hai?
Kya wajah hai ke itne log sahi rishta milne ke bawajood bhi shaadi tak nahi pohnch paate? Aakhir wo kaun si badi ghaltiyan hain jo log aaj bhi baar-baar karte hain, jinki wajah se ek aasan sunnat mushkil ban jaati hai?
Chaliye, in 7 badi ghaltiyon ko samajhte hain jo ab bhi hamare society mein nikah ke raste mein rukawat banti hain.
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1. Zyada Taqalufaat Aur Shaan-o-Shaukat Ka Dikhawa
Aaj bhi log samajhte hain ke baraat tabhi qabil-e-taareef hai jab hazaron rupay kharch kar diye jayein. Hall, designer dresses, mehngi gaadiyan – sab dikhawa ban kar reh gaye hain. Sunnat hai sadegi, lekin ghalti hai shaandar izhar. Isi dikhaway ne kai gharo mein nikah rok rakha hai.
2. Jahez Ka Talab Karna
Yeh ghalti to sab ko maloom hai, lekin ab bhi log chhup kar ya khullam khulla jahez maangte hain. Jo ladki walay afford nahi kar paate, unki beti ke liye rishta atak jaata hai. Sochiye, agar jahez rukawat na hoti to kitni betiyan aaj apne gharon mein khush hoti.
3. Ilm Aur Deen Ko Nazarandaz Karna
Shaadi ke faislay mein aksar sirf paisa, job aur status dekha jaata hai. Deen aur akhlaq ko peeche chhod diya jata hai. Phir nikah rukawat ban jaata hai kyunki asli buniyad hi nazarandaz kar di gayi.
4. Ghair Zaroori Rasmein Aur Riwaaj
Haldi, mehndi, song, dance – aisi rasmein jo Islam se taalluq nahi rakhtin, unhe “zaroori” samajh kar shamil kiya jata hai. Aksar ladki ya ladke wale in rasmon par na chal kar bhi ruk jaate hain. Yani sunnat se zyada riwaaj aham ho gaya hai.
5. Umeedon Ki Had Se Zyada Lambi List
“Kisi ko chahiye doctor damad, kisi ko chahiye fair complexion wali dulhan, kisi ko chahiye settled abroad rishta.” Jab ummedein hi zyada unrealistic hon to rishta aage kaise bade? Har choti cheez pe “na” kehna ek badi rukawat hai.
6. Ghair Mansoof Maali Pressure
Aksar ghar walay samajhte hain ke shaadi ek hi din mein karz utarne ya izzat dikhane ka zariya hai. Is maali pressure ki wajah se log rishton ko postpone karte hain. Aakhirat ke liye jo sunnat hai, usay duniya ke liye qurbaan kar dete hain.
7. Mashwaray Ki Kami Aur Ghalat Decision Making
Nikah ek bara faisla hai, lekin aksar log bina mashwara kiye ya sirf samajh ke darr ki wajah se faisla kar lete hain. Na parents ka sahi mashwara, na deen ki rehnumai – yeh ghalti baad mein regret aur rukawat dono ban jaati hai.
Kya Asal Masla Sirf Rasmein Hain?
Aap soch rahe honge ke kya sirf rasmein hi rukawat hain? Nahi! Asal rukawat hai humara sochne ka tareeqa. Jab tak hum apni soch ko Qur’an aur Sunnat ke mutabiq nahi karenge, tab tak rukawatain barh kar aati rahengi.
Nateeja
Nikah mein rukawat kya hai? Jawab yeh hai: rukawat log khud paida karte hain – ya to apne dikhaway ki wajah se, ya apni ghalat soch ki wajah se.
Agar hum in 7 badi ghaltiyon ko chhod dein to na sirf nikah asaan ho jaayega, balke gharon mein sukoon, mohabbat aur barkat bhi barh jaayegi.
👉 Aap kya samajhte hain? In 7 ghaltiyon mein sabse zyada nuksaandaik rukawat kaunsi hai jo aaj bhi log karte hain?
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