Introduction: Ek Ajeeb Sawaal Jo Har Shadi Shuda Dil Ko Chhoo Leta Hai
Shadi ek sukoon ka zariya honi chahiye. Nikah Islam ka ek paak rishta hai jisme mohabbat, rahmat aur barkat bhar di gayi hai. Lekin aaj ke daur mein aksar yeh awaaz uthti hai: “Nikah mein sakoon kyun nahi?”
Aakhir kyun aaj ke jode aksar bechaini, ladaai-jhagde aur narazgiyon ka shikaar hote hain? Kya yeh sirf ek dosray ko na samajhne ki wajah hai? Ya phir iske peeche koi aur gehri baat chhupi hai?
Quran aur Hadees ke roshni mein ek sachai samne aati hai: Shaitaan ka sabse pasandida khel shadi-shuda jodo ke darmiyan fasad dalna hai. Ji haan, shaitaan khush hota hai jab wo ek ghar ke sakoon ko ujaad deta hai. Aur iske liye usne kuch “chhupi hui chalein” banayi hain jo aaj ke musalmaan gharano ko tod rahi hain.
Is blog mein hum detail se jaanenge:
- Nikah mein sakoon kyun kam ho gaya hai?
- Shaitaan ki 3 chhupi hui chalein jo rishton ko khokhla karti hain.
- Islam kya hal pesh karta hai taake ghar phir se mohabbat aur barkat ka markaz ban sake.
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Nikah Mein Sakoon Kyun Nahi? – Aaj Ke Daur Ka Haqiqat
Pehle zamane ke shadi-shuda jode saari umar saath nibha lete the, chaahe mushkilein bhi hoti thi. Aaj ke daur mein chhoti baaton par tallaq tak baat pahunch jaati hai. Aur log kehte hain: “Nikah mein sukoon hi nahi raha.”
Iski kuch badi wajahen:
- Ghair haqiqi expectations – Movies, dramas aur social media ne shaadi ko ek fairytale bana kar pesh kiya hai.
- Sabr aur shukr ki kami – Har chhoti cheez pe narazgi aur compare karna.
- Communication gap – Dil ki baat ko chupana, samajhne ke bajaye sirf ilzaam lagana.
- Shaitani waswase – Sabse bari wajah jo log andekhi kar dete hain: shaitaan ke daale hue fitne.
Ab sawal hai: shaitaan aakhir kar kya karta hai jo sakoon mita deta hai? Chaliye uski 3 chhupi hui chalein samajhte hain.
Shaitaan Ki 3 Chhupi Hui Chalein
1. Chhoti Baaton Ko Bara Banana
Shaitaan ka sabse bara hathyar hai “bari baat ko chhupana aur chhoti baat ko bara dikhana.”
- Ek cup chai thandi ho gayi, to jhagra.
- Ek message reply der se aaya, to shaque.
- Ek taraf se “sorry” na aayi, to roothna aur dinon tak baat na karna.
Ye chhoti baatein agar maafi aur samajhne ke jazbe se hal ki jaayein to mohabbat barh jaati hai. Lekin shaitaan inhi baaton ko fuel karta hai taake narazgi barhe aur rishta kamzor ho.
Hadees: Nabi ﷺ ne farmaya:
“Shaitaan apna arsh paani par rakhta hai, aur apne lashkaron ko bhejta hai. Uske qareeb sabse bada wo hota hai jo sabse zyada fitna karta hai. Ek aata hai aur kehta hai: ‘Mainne falan ko itna jaghdaaya.’ Shaitaan kehta hai: ‘Tum kuch nahi kiya.’ Phir ek aata hai aur kehta hai: ‘Mainne falan miyan-biwi ko alag kar diya.’ Shaitaan kehta hai: ‘Tum ne kamaal kar diya.’”
(Muslim)
2. Be-Waqt Comparison Aur Ghair-Haqiqi Khwahishe
Shaitaan aaj kal ke social media daur ka faida uthata hai.
- Aurton ko dikhata hai ke “Dekho falan ka shohar usse foreign trip par le gaya, tumhara kya karta hai?”
- Mardon ke dil mein dalta hai: “Dekho falan ki biwi hamesha sajti hai, tumhari kya karti hai?”
Ye comparison ka zeher sakoon ko khatam kar deta hai. Har shakhs apni zindagi ka sirf “highlight reel” dikhata hai, asal mein wo bhi apni problems se guzarte hain.
Quran ka paigham:
“Apni nigahon ko un cheezon ki taraf na badhao jo humne kuch logon ko duniya ki zeenat ke tor par di hain. Tumhare Rabb ka diya hua rizq behtar aur baqi hai.” (Surah Taha: 131)
3. Sabr Aur Shukr Ko Dil Se Nikal Dena
Nikah ka asal sukoon tab hi aata hai jab dono taraf se sabr aur shukr ho. Lekin shaitaan dono qualities ko mita deta hai:
- Sabr ki kami: ek mushkil aaye to foran ilzaam aur gussa.
- Shukr ki kami: jitna mila us par khushi na hona, hamesha aur chahna.
Jab insaan apne shohar/biwi ki chhoti chhoti achhaiyon ko ignore karke sirf buraiyan dekhta hai, to sakoon khatam ho jaata hai.
Hadees: Nabi ﷺ ne farmaya:
“Jo shakhs logon ka shukr ada nahi karta, wo Allah ka shukr bhi nahi karta.” (Tirmidhi)
Shaitaan isi natak se ghar ke andar mohabbat ka chiragh bujha deta hai.
Islam Ka Hal: Nikah Mein Sukoon Dobara Kaise Laayein?
Shaitaan ki chalein samajhne ke baad Islam ne hume jo tareeqe diye hain, wo sakoon laane ka sabse asaan nuskha hain:
1. Salah Aur Dua Ko Ghar Ki Buniyad Banao
Namaz aur dua shaitaan ki sabse badi dushman hain. Jo ghar mein namaz aur tilawat hoti hai, wahan sakoon barhta hai.
- Subah aur shaam ki masnoon duaein parhna.
- Saath mil kar namaz parhna.
- Ghar mein Quran ki tilawat aur zikr ki mehfil.
2. Communication Aur Maafi Seekho
- Galti ho to foran “sorry” kehna.
- Baat ko chupane ke bajaye share karna.
- Aapas mein mushkil ko hal karne ka tareeqa seekhna, na ke dosray ghar walon ya social media ko involve karna.
3. Shukr Guzar Hona Seekho
- Apne life partner ki chhoti se chhoti achhai ko appreciate karo.
- Roz ek cheez ke liye shukriya kehna.
- Comparison chhod kar apni zindagi ki barkaton par nazar rakho.
4. Sabr Ka Jazba Barhao
- Har mushkil waqt ko Allah ki aazmaish samajh kar guzar jao.
- Ek doosre ke liye asaaniyan paida karna apna mission banao.
- Yaad rakho: sukoon ek din mein nahi aata, ye aik doosre ki kashtiyon ko sambhalte sambhalte barhta hai.
Real-Life Example:
Ayesha aur Ahmed ki shadi ko sirf 2 saal hue the. Roz ke chhote chhote masail bade jhagde ban jaate. Ahmed complain karta ke Ayesha khush nahi rehti, aur Ayesha kehti ke Ahmed usse waqt nahi deta. Ek din Ayesha ne Quran ki ek ayat suni:
“Aur tumhare liye tumhari biwiyon mein sukoon rakha aur tum dono ke darmiyan mohabbat aur rehmat daali.” (Surah Rum: 21)
Ye sun kar dono ko realize hua ke asal problem ek doosre mein nahi, balki unke approach mein thi. Unhone faisla kiya: har roz ek chhoti chhoti cheez ke liye shukriya kehna, aur har raat dua mein ek doosre ka naam lena. Dheere dheere unka ghar phir se sakoon ka markaz ban gaya.
Conclusion: Nikah Mein Sukoon Kyun Nahi? Shaitaan Ki 3 Chhupi Hui Chalein
Shaitaan ki sabse bari koshish yeh hai ke woh insaan ko insaan ke saath ladaye, aur sabse pehle miyan-biwi ko ek dusre se door kare. Is liye jab bhi aapke dil mein sawal aaye “Nikah mein sakoon kyun nahi?”, to samajh jaiye ke shaitaan apni chhupi hui chal chal raha hai.
Lekin Islam ne hume hal bhi diya: namaz, dua, sabr, shukr aur mohabbat ke zariye shaitaan ke har fitne ko tod sakte hain.
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