“Qubool hai” – yeh sirf teen lafz nahi, balki zindagi ke nayi safar ki shuruaat hai.
Lekin ek sawal jo aksar log bhool jaate hain woh yeh hai: kya aap sirf zabaan se qubool kar rahe hain, ya dil se bhi tayyar hain?
Hamari society mein aksar nikah ek social event ban gaya hai – jahan log mehndi, shaadi aur walima ki tayaari par focus karte hain, lekin asli sawal par kam dhyaan dete hain: “Kya main is rishtay ke haqooq aur zimmedaariyon ke liye waqai tayyar hoon?”
"Kya Islam ne dono ko barabar kaha hai? Aksar log sirf ek taraf ka sunnte hain... lekin asal sach kya hai? Aaiye, jaaniye wo baat jo bohot kam log jante hain – Shohar aur Biwi ke Haqooq"
🔹 Nikah Sirf Lafzon Ka Moaheda Nahi
Islam mein nikah ek contract hi nahi, balke ek ibadat hai. Jab aap “Qubool hai” kehte hain, aap:
- Ek insaan ke haqooq apne zimme lete hain.
- Ek doosre ki izzat, hifazat aur mohabbat ka wada karte hain.
- Apni zindagi ke faislon mein ek naya saathi shamil karte hain.
Lekin yeh sab tabhi mumkin hai jab dil aur zehen dono tayyar hon – sirf society ke pressure ya family ke kehne par nahi.
🔹 Qubool Hai – Lekin Kya Aapko Pata Hai Kya Badlega?
- Azadi Se Zimmedaari Tak
Shaadi ke baad aapki life sirf “meri marzi” nahi rahti. Har faisla ab “hamari marzi” ban jaata hai. - Khushi Aur Gham Ka Saath
Nikah ka matlab hai ke aap sirf khushiyon mein nahi, gham mein bhi ek doosre ke saath khade rahenge. - Ek Doosre Ke Haqooq Ka Ehtram
Shohar aur biwi dono ke barabar haqooq hain. Sirf lena hi nahi, dena bhi hoga.
🔹 Sirf Zabaan Se Qubool Karna Kafi Nahi
Aksar log majboori, society ke dabao, ya bas “umar ho gayi hai” wali soch se nikah kar lete hain. Result?
- Dil se tayyar na hone ki wajah se misunderstandings.
- Chhoti baaton par larai-jhagde.
- Kabhi-kabhi talaaq tak baat pahunch jaati hai.
Is liye, yeh teen lafz kehne se pehle apne aap se poochiye:
👉 “Kya main waqai tayyar hoon apne partner ke saath zindagi bitaane ke liye?”
🔹 Islam Ka Balance Approach
Rasool Allah ﷺ ne nikah ko aadhi deen ki mukammaliat kaha. Lekin iske liye tayyari sirf financial nahi, balke emotional aur spiritual bhi zaroori hai.
- Dil se qubool – mohabbat, narmi aur sabr ke saath.
- Zehen se qubool – zimmedaari samajh kar.
- Imaan se qubool – Allah ke hukum aur Sunnah ke mutabiq.
🔹 Society Ka Pressure Ya Dil Ki Raza?
Hamari society mein kai shaadiyan sirf is liye ho jaati hain ke:
- “Log kya kahenge?”
- “Umar nikal rahi hai.”
- “Rishta accha hai, mana karna mushkil hai.”
Lekin asal sawal yeh hai:
👉 Aap kya chahte hain? Kya aapka dil razi hai?
Nikah kabhi bhi sirf majboori ya samaj ke dabao mein nahi karna chahiye, warna yeh mohabbat aur sukoon ka rishta ek bojh ban jaata hai.
✨ Khulasah
“Qubool hai” sirf teen lafz nahi – yeh ek zindagi bhar ka wada hai.
Isliye yeh kehne se pehle, apne dil ko zaroor dekhiye:
- Kya main apne partner ke saath zimmedaariyan nibhane ke liye tayyar hoon?
- Kya main sirf zabaan se nahi, dil se bhi qubool kar raha hoon?
Islam ne hamesha nikah ko rahmat, sukoon aur mohabbat ka zariya banaya hai. Aur yeh tabhi mumkin hai jab dono taraf se ikhlas aur tayyari ho.
👉 Ab sawal aapke liye:
Aap jab “Qubool Hai” kahenge, toh kya woh sirf lafzon ka wada hoga ya dil se bhi tayyar honge?
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