Kya sirf shohar ka haq ada karna biwi ki zimmedaari hai? Ya Islam ne dono ko barabar kaha hai?
Aksar hum apni society mein ye baat sunte hain ke biwi ko shohar ka har hukm maanna chahiye, warna woh gunaahgar hogi. Lekin sawaal ye uthta hai ke kya Islam ne sirf biwi ke zimmedariyon ka zikr kiya hai? Shohar ki zimmedariyan kya hain? Aur sabse badi baat, kya haqooq barabar rakhe gaye hain ya ek doosre se zyada?
Yahaan se shuru hoti hai ek ahem samajhne ki baat – Islam ne haqooq aur zimmedariyan dono taraf se barabar rakhi hain.
Nikah Mein Der Kyun? Rizq Ka Dar Ya Society Ka Dabaav?
Allah ne rizq ka waada kiya hai, society ne standards banaye hain — humne kis par yaqeen kiya?
Is blog mein khul kar baat hoti hai un asal wajahaat ki jo shadi jaise simple hukm ko mushkil bana deti hain.
🔹 Qur’an Ka Paigham – Barabari Aur Adal
Allah Ta’ala Qur’an mein farmata hai:
“Aur auraton ke liye wahi huqooq hain jo un par hain, bil-ma’roof (acchi riwayat ke mutabiq). Aur mardon ka ek darja hai unpar.” (Surah Al-Baqarah 2:228)
Is ayat ka matlab yeh hai ke dono ke huqooq barabar hain, lekin mard par ek qasmi zimmedari ziada rakhi gayi hai – kyunke woh ghar ka qawwam (zimmedaar) banaya gaya hai. Matlab, zimmedari zyada hone ka matlab hukumat karna nahi, balki protect, provide aur lead karna hai.
🔹 Shohar Ke Huqooq – Jo Aksar Nazar Andaz Hote Hain
- Qiwamat aur Nafaqa – Shohar ki zimmedaari hai ke biwi ki rozi, kapra, makan aur izzat ka zimma uthaye.
- Mohabbat aur Narmi – Rasool Allah ﷺ ne farmaya:
“Tum mein behtareen woh hai jo apne ghar walon ke liye behtareen hai.” (Tirmidhi) - Mashwara aur Respect – Islam ne shohar ko hukamran nahi, leader banaya hai – aur leader apne saathi ka mashwara zaroor leta hai.
- Adal aur Wafa – Biwi ke saath zulm karna ya uski rights ko dabaana sakht gunaah hai.
🔹 Biwi Ke Huqooq – Jinhein Aksar Zyada Highlight Kiya Jata Hai
- Shohar ki Izzat aur Itaat – Jo kaam Allah ke khilaf na ho, usme shohar ki itaat karna biwi ka farz hai.
- Ghar ki Hifazat – Ghar aur shohr ki amanat ka khayal rakhna.
- Mohabbat aur Khidmat – Apne rawaiye, muskaraahat aur mohabbat se shohar ke liye sukoon ka zariya banna.
- Shukr Guzari – Shohar ki mehnat aur qurbaniyon ki qadr karna.
🔹 Barabari Ka Matlab – Zimmedariyon Ki Adal
Islam ne kabhi bhi sirf ek taraf zimmedari daali hi nahi. Biwi ki itaat ko highlight kiya, toh saath hi shohr ki mohabbat aur insaf ko bhi laazmi qarar diya.
- Shohar ke liye biwi ek libaas hai.
- Biwi ke liye shohr bhi ek libaas hai.
(Al-Baqarah 2:187)
Libas ka matlab – dono ek doosre ki hifazat, zeenat, aur sukoon hain.
🔹 Aaj Ki Society Ka Masla
Hamari society mein masla ye hai ke sirf biwi ke farz remind karaye jate hain, magar shohr ke farz ko nazarandaz kar diya jata hai. Result? Zulm, misunderstanding aur talaaq ki waqat se pehle naubat.
Jabke asal Islam yeh kehta hai:
👉 Shohar aur biwi dono ke huqooq aur zimmedaariyan barabar hain – ek doosre ke bina adhure hain.
✨ Khulasah
Nikah ka asal maqsad mohabbat, sukoon aur rehmat hai. Islam ne na mard ko zalim banaya aur na aurat ko mazloom – dono ko ek doosre ke liye rahmat aur zaroorat banaya.
Aaj humein samajhna hoga ke “Shohar Aur Biwi Ke Haqooq – Islam Ne Dono Ko Barabar Kaha Hai” sirf ek jumla nahi, balke ek lifestyle hai.
Jo is barabari ko samajh kar apna lega, uski zindagi khushgawar aur sukoon se bhari hogi.
👉 Ab sawaal aap se:
Kya aapko lagta hai ke aaj ke musalmaan gharon mein haqooq ki barabari waqai ada ki ja rahi hai?
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